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14 Matters a family lawyer can help you with

Written by Lance Jackson on 26 Mar 2025

When it comes to family law matters, legal support isn’t only for the end of a relationship—it is just as valuable at the beginning. Family dynamics are more complex than ever, often involving blended families, stepchildren, and multiple marriages, which bring unique legal and financial considerations. A trusted and experienced family lawyer can provide guidance on matters such as financial agreements and inheritance rights, helping establish clarity and protection from the outset.

Likewise, if a relationship breaks down, a family lawyer can assist with separation, divorce, parenting arrangements, and property settlements, ensuring you know your rights and responsibilities.

Throughout the process, we help remove the emotion of difficult decisions by offering clear, objective guidance on your legal rights and obligations. Understanding legal requirements and possible outcomes empowers you to make informed decisions.

1.  Separation and divorce

A family lawyer can guide you through the divorce process, ensuring you understand your legal rights and obligations from the outset. Under Australia’s no-fault divorce system, neither party needs to prove wrongdoing.  Instead, they must demonstrate that the marriage has irretrievably broken down by completing 12 months of separation before applying for divorce.

Engaging a family lawyer can also streamline the legal process by assisting with the preparation and filing of your divorce application, whether as a sole or joint applicant. They can handle eFiling through the Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia, ensuring all documentation is accurate and complete to avoid unnecessary delays. If your divorce involves children under 18 or your spouse contests the application, a lawyer can represent you at hearings and advocate for your interests.

You may not have to attend court for a divorce if your situation is more straightforward, which your family lawyer can advise on.

2.  De Facto relationships

For couples who are not legally married but live together in a committed relationship, de facto relationships carry many of the same legal rights and responsibilities as marriage under the Family Law Act 1975 (Cth). Legal guidance can help you understand your legal standing, particularly regarding financial and parenting matters. Whether entering a de facto relationship or going through a separation, knowing your entitlements regarding property division, spousal maintenance, and parental responsibilities is important.

If a de facto relationship ends, the legal process for settling financial and parenting matters is similar to divorce. A family lawyer can assist with negotiating and formalising agreements related to property settlements, child custody, and support arrangements, ensuring that your rights and interests are protected. There are time limitations for making financial claims after separation—generally, two years from the date of separation to apply for property settlements or spousal maintenance.  Parenting arrangements, however, can be determined at any time in the best interests of the child.

3.  Property settlements

When a relationship ends, whether a marriage or a de facto partnership, one of the most important legal matters to address is property settlement. This process determines how assets, liabilities, and financial resources are divided between both parties. Since every situation is unique, property settlements can be negotiated privately, through mediation, or, if necessary, resolved by the court.

A property settlement covers all assets and debts, including real estate, savings, investments, businesses, and even superannuation. In Australia, superannuation splitting laws allow separating couples to divide superannuation interests, but this process requires a formal agreement or court order to take effect. Disputes over property ownership and entitlements can be complex, particularly if one party contributed financially while the other made non-financial contributions, such as raising children or managing the household. Legal assistance can help negotiate and formalise agreements, ensuring that settlements are handled efficiently and in accordance with the Family Law Act 1975 (Cth).

Ensuring that all financial entitlements and obligations are legally resolved provides certainty and safeguards long-term financial stability.

4.  Spousal maintenance

Spousal maintenance is another financial consideration. In some cases, one partner may be entitled to ongoing financial support from the other if they cannot adequately support themselves after the relationship ends. Spousal maintenance is separate from property division and may be awarded where one spouse is unable to meet their reasonable expenses and the other has the financial capacity to provide support. Legal guidance can help determine eligibility for spousal maintenance, considering income, earning capacity, health, age, and childcare responsibilities.

5.  Financial agreements

Another important aspect of financial security in relationships is Binding Financial Agreements (BFAs). These agreements, sometimes referred to as prenuptial agreements, can be made before, during, or after a marriage or de facto relationship to outline how assets, debts, and financial matters will be managed in the event of separation. Financial agreements provide clarity and protection by setting out the rights and obligations of each party, helping to reduce disputes and uncertainty if the relationship ends.

A financial agreement must be legally enforceable, meaning both parties must receive independent legal advice to ensure fairness and compliance. Legal guidance is essential in negotiating terms, ensuring the agreement is comprehensive and aligns with both parties’ needs. If a financial dispute arises, having a binding agreement in place can help avoid costly and time-consuming court proceedings by clearly defining how financial matters should be resolved. Whether planning or formalising financial arrangements post-separation, financial agreements offer certainty and protection for both individuals.

6.  Parenting arrangements and child custody

When a relationship ends, parenting arrangements, including child custody, become one of the most important and emotionally challenging aspects to resolve. Just as financial matters must be legally finalised to avoid complications, clear and structured parenting arrangements help ensure stability and security for children after separation. Australian family law focuses on the child’s best interests, which includes maintaining a meaningful relationship with both parents wherever possible. Understanding parental responsibility, living arrangements, and time spent with each parent is important in establishing fair and workable arrangements that prioritise the child’s well-being.

Parents are encouraged to reach agreements through parenting plans or consent orders, which outline custody arrangements, decision-making responsibilities, and visitation schedules. A legally recognised consent order, approved by the court, provides enforceable terms that help avoid future disputes. If parents cannot agree on arrangements, court intervention may be necessary, and legal representation ensures that a parent’s rights and concerns are presented. Whether negotiating amicable agreements or navigating court proceedings, obtaining legal guidance helps streamline the process, reduce conflict, and create structured parenting arrangements that support the child’s best interests.

7.  Child support

After parenting arrangements are established, ensuring that children receive financial support is a key consideration. Child support is designed to meet a child’s everyday needs, including housing, education, healthcare, and other essential expenses. In Australia, child support is assessed and managed through the Child Support Agency (CSA), which calculates payments based on income, the number of children, and the percentage of care each parent provides. Understanding this assessment process and your financial obligations is essential to ensuring that child support arrangements are fair and sustainable.

Parents can manage child support payments through private agreements, CSA assessments, or legally binding agreements. In some cases, circumstances may change over time, requiring modifications to existing child support arrangements due to changes in income, employment, or care arrangements.

8.  Domestic Violence and Family Violence Orders (AVOs/Family Violence Orders)

In some family law cases, domestic violence and safety concerns play a critical role in separation, parenting arrangements, and financial settlements. When family violence is present, it can significantly impact child custody, property settlements, and financial obligations, requiring additional legal protections to safeguard those affected. Individuals facing threats, harassment, or abuse may seek a protection order, such as an apprehended domestic violence order (ADVO), to restrict an abusive party from making contact or engaging in harmful behaviour.

For those who require legal protection, assistance is available in applying for ADVOs or defending against accusations of breaching an order. Courts take domestic violence allegations seriously, and such claims can influence parenting arrangements and property settlements, particularly if a child’s safety is at risk. Legal representation is beneficial if allegations arise in presenting evidence and ensuring a fair process for all parties involved. Whether seeking protection or responding to claims, legal support ensures that the appropriate legal procedures are followed, helping to create a safe and legally sound resolution.

9.  Mediation and Alternative Dispute Resolution (ADR)

Court is not always the best solution in resolving disputes. In many cases, Mediation and Alternative Dispute Resolution (ADR) provide a more efficient, cost-effective, and less stressful way to resolve conflicts without going to court. Mediation allows separating couples to negotiate parenting and property settlements in a structured environment, guided by a neutral third party who facilitates discussions and helps find common ground. This process encourages cooperation and can lead to mutually beneficial agreements.

In family law matters, Family Dispute Resolution (FDR) is generally required before initiating court proceedings for parenting disputes unless there are exemptions such as family violence or urgency. Legal guidance can assist in preparing for FDR conferences, ensuring that key concerns and priorities are effectively communicated.

10.  Court representation

While Mediation and Alternative Dispute Resolution (ADR) can help many families resolve disputes outside of court, some cases require court intervention when agreements cannot be reached. In matters involving parenting disputes, property settlements, financial agreements, or domestic violence, court representation ensures that your legal rights are protected and your case is presented effectively.

Although most family law matters can be settled out of court, all applications for divorce require a hearing. You may wish to consider a lawyer to represent your interests during these proceedings and ensure you’re adequately prepared.

While you do not need a lawyer, legal representation is highly beneficial in preparing court documents, affidavits, and supporting evidence. Understanding procedural requirements and court timelines is crucial, as missing deadlines or filing incomplete paperwork can lead to delays or unfavourable outcomes. Legal advocacy ensures that your interests are effectively represented during court proceedings, whether in negotiations, hearings, or trials. While self-representation is an option, having skilled legal support can provide clarity, confidence, and the best chance of achieving a fair resolution.

11.  Enforcement of Orders

Even after court orders are made, there are times when one party does not comply. Ensuring compliance with court orders is crucial in family law to uphold legal obligations and protect the rights of all parties.  When a party fails to comply with family court orders, enforcement mechanisms become necessary. The affected individual may need to initiate legal action to enforce their rights, as courts do not automatically enforce family law orders.

Enforcement options vary depending on the type of order. Compliance with parenting and child-related orders is essential, and if a party contravenes a parenting order without a reasonable excuse, the court may impose penalties. In financial matters, enforcement of financial orders applies to property settlements, child support, or spousal maintenance, and may involve seizure of assets, wage garnishment, or legal penalties for non-payment. If compliance remains an issue, court intervention may be required to protect the legal rights of the affected party and ensure that court orders are upheld.

12.  Adoption and Surrogacy

Family lawyers can also play a role in building families through adoption and surrogacy. These processes involve complex legal requirements to ensure that parental rights are properly established and that the best interests of the child are upheld. Whether growing a family through adoption or surrogacy, navigating the legal framework is essential to ensure compliance with Australian laws and to secure legal recognition of parental status.

For those pursuing adoption, legal guidance can be beneficial in understanding eligibility, meeting state-specific requirements, and obtaining the necessary court approvals. Whether domestic or international, surrogacy arrangements require legally binding agreements to define the rights and responsibilities of all parties involved. This includes ensuring that intended parents are legally recognised after birth. In cases where formal court orders are required, legal representation can assist in finalising adoption or surrogacy arrangements, ensuring that all legal steps are completed correctly. Given the legal and emotional complexities involved, professional legal support can provide clarity and confidence throughout the process.

13.   International Family Law issues

Family law matters can become even more complex when they involve international legal issues, particularly in child relocation cases, parental disputes across borders, or overseas financial settlements. Whether a parent wishes to relocate with their child overseas, recover a child taken abroad without consent, or divide assets held in different countries, international family law requires a thorough understanding of Australian laws and relevant international agreements.

For parents considering moving overseas with children, legal advice is essential to ensure compliance with family law requirements and existing parenting arrangements. If a child is taken abroad without consent, the Hague Convention on the Civil Aspects of International Child Abduction provides a legal framework to seek their return, provided the destination country is a signatory to the Convention. Property settlements involving overseas assets can also introduce jurisdictional challenges, requiring careful legal negotiation to ensure fair division. Navigating these cross-border complexities requires expert legal guidance to protect parental rights, uphold court orders, and achieve fair financial settlements while ensuring compliance with international legal obligations.

14.  Referrals and holistic support

Family law matters often extend beyond legal disputes, impacting emotional well-being, financial stability, and family dynamics. While legal representation is valuable in resolving separation, parenting arrangements, financial settlements, and international disputes, additional holistic support can help individuals and families navigate these challenges more effectively. Lawyers often collaborate with counsellors, psychologists, financial planners, and support services to provide clients with resources to help rebuild their lives after a major family transition.

Understand your rights and responsibilities under the Family Law Act

Family law matters can be emotionally and legally complex, whether you are starting a relationship, going through a separation, or resolving parenting and financial matters. Understanding your legal rights and responsibilities is essential to making informed decisions that protect your future. A trusted and experienced family lawyer can guide you through the family law system, helping you navigate negotiation, mediation, or court proceedings. Seeking legal advice ensures you understand your options under Australian family law, allowing you to take proactive steps to protect your interests and work toward a fair resolution.

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Lance Jackson

Lance has dedicated more than 20 years to helping clients in all aspects of family law, including divorce and separation, financial settlements and children matters. His clients benefit from his longstanding experience, unrelenting commitment and genuine passion for law.
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